At Least Bad Ideas Make For Good Stories. Right?!?

There are some things we want so bad we will go to some crazy efforts.
People try some crazy diets to lose weight, when in reality all you probably need to do is eat healthy and stay physical... some how.




People try some crazy attempts to get back the one 'they love' and usually when they look back they just drop their head and shake it.
This is now known on Facebook and texting as SMH.

Ok. Ok. Ok. So Alex is an extreme example, but you get my hint.

I have even heard of people 'hooking up' with a friend to borrow their swimmers. Everyone remembers the scene from "The Big Chill" where Glenn Close loans out Kevin Kline to Mary Kay Place  for a night to get pregnant. CRAZY!

Actually one of my favorite movies still

Here is what I have to say to those people and their crazy ideas/efforts.
It may sound like a good idea at the time and even logical, but...
IT'S NOT!

Frosty's not so bright family members

Be patient.
If you were meant to be voluptuous, then be that and be proud of your curves. You would be worshipped in some cultures and a muse for some artist in the renaissance era.
If you were meant to be with the 'one', then you will be someday, just maybe not this day.
If you were meant to be a parent, then you will be when the time is right and the way you  are meant to become a parent.

Self Portrait on Sunday

Do not force it and try to be a size, a love, or a certain someone, after all it's not really in our hands.
It's in God's hands, Buddha's belt, the secret of the stars or whatever you believe in this time.
However, do not give up your dream!
Like my preacher man Joel Osteen says... "God did not bring you this far just to leave you here."